Surprise! Most Students Like Their Roommates

Everyone has heard at least one "roommate from hell" story, but most students have little trouble living with their roommates if they are willing to follow eight very simple, time tested suggestions.

1. If you are asked to fill out a roommate questionnaire, be honest. That means being candid about yourself and what you expect from a roommate.

2. Any communication you can have with your roommate before you move into your room is a good idea. If possible, meet for lunch or coffee in a place where you can begin to get to know each other; if not, there's always email and phone calls.

3. Even if the college you'll be attending does not require it, a roommate contract is generally a great idea. You and your roommate should discuss what issues are important to you (neatness, noise, guests, smoking in your room, borrowing each others things, etc.) and put together a written agreement.

4. Keep in mind that your way is not the only way. It may not even be one of the ten best ways. Keep an open mind.

5. Communicate, communicate, communicate. Then, communicate some more. If you can talk to each other calmly, you'll be OK.

6. Pledge that you will not complain about your roommate to your friends or family for a minimum of 3-4 weeks. Give him or her a fair chance.

7. If things are so bad that you feel you have to complain to anyone about your roommate, instead complain to him or her, as politely and tactfully as possible. If your complaint is reasonable, that may be the end of the problem. If not, it will at least begin a discussion.

8. Remember the art of compromise. If you adopt a "my way or the highway" attitude, you are probably the problem, not your roommate. And, if you can't do it now, learn to accept criticism without anger.

There are some legendary roommate horror stories. But, in reality, most students have very little trouble getting along with their roommates. And, following the guidelines above will greatly raise the odds that the same will be true for you.

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Daniel Z. Kane is a dean at a medium sized southern university. He has created educational websites on subjects which include scholarships, financial aid, college online, and degrees online.
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